Episode 16: Discovering You Are a Forced Adoptee
In the expat and globally mobile community we are familiar with adjusting to new cultures, new countries and new homes. In our processing, we often look to our families, our roots, our ancestors and our childhoods.
What happens though when that avenue is not available to you? How does it feel to not have the same connection to your roots? Where does that leave you emotionally?
In this episode, I talk to Liz Harvie about being adopted and the impact of loss and grief as a child, through to adulthood and to having her own family. In our conversation Liz also shares the deeper impact of discovering that her parents were actually forced to give her up for adoption.
Liz offers insights into the social attitudes towards adoption, plus the emotional and physical importance of knowing where you come from. She also explains why the UK inquiry into forced adoptions matters so much to so many.
Mentioned in the episode
Follow Liz Harvie
Follow Cath at Drawn to a Story
Music by Grant McLachlan
Adoption UK – Support & advocacy for those parenting /supporting kids who can’t live with their birth parents
New Family Social – information/support for LGBT+ adoptive & foster families
Samaritans – FREE Help – Tel: 116 123, E: firstname.lastname@example.org
The British Psychology Society – Find a Psychologist
Forced Adoption Support (South Australia)
SANE Australia – Counselling support, Tel: 1800 187 263 (10am – 10pm)
Mensline – help, support, referrals and counselling for men
Beyond Blue – Mental health support
The Black Dog Institute – Medical health resources, services and research
American Psychologist Association – Psychologist Finder
OR contact medical services in your country.